Jewish World Review Feb. 27, 2001 / 5 Adar, 5761
Don't take mommy's money!; livid at landscaper
DEAR BRUCE: My mom is 70 years old. My father, up until this time, has made all of the financial decisions, but he just passed away. My mother's assets are about $1 million, most of which is investments in stocks and mutual funds, plus some cash. She owns her own home outright, which is worth $160,000.
She "gifts" $10,000 a year to me, another $10,000 to my wife, my two sisters and their husbands, plus the five grandchildren. She also plans on "gifting" most of her estate up to the lifetime limit. Can you advise whether this is a good decision? -- E.C., via e-mail
DEAR E.C.: Not from where I'm sitting. At the rate that she is giving the money away, she could literally impoverish herself, and I think that's very foolish. If she wants to give minor amounts of money to her grandchildren and children, that's one thing. You might suggest that she look into a living trust. But for her to give away most of her assets at a relatively young age is extremely foolish. She could easily live for another 15 or 20 years.
Somehow, after the money has been given away, the recipients have a tough time giving it back.
The time to give this money away is after she passes away.
DEAR BRUCE: I spent more than $7,000 for landscaping on my home, including removing the old stuff and putting in various plants to make the home look pleasant. I did exactly what the landscape people suggested: I watered the plants at the appropriate times and on occasion I gave them some food.
Seven months later, half of the plant material is dead. It isn't as if we neglected it; we did exactly what we were supposed to do. When we called the landscapers, they were, to say the least, unenthusiastic about replacing the material. The salesman told us the work was guaranteed. I have called them on numerous occasions. They finally told me today that it wasn't their fault that the plants had died, and they had no intention of replacing them for free. If I wanted them replaced, they would do so at their wholesale cost. What do you say? -- R.S., via e-mail
DEAR R.S.: You have got to be kidding. If you did as you say and all of the material was appropriately cared for, there is absolutely no reason why it shouldn't have thrived. If it didn't, the landscaper should be responsible for replacing it completely, and then it would be in his or her best interest to come out from time to time and oversee the maintenance. I have spent considerable money on my home landscaping and would be livid if it lasted only a few months. I would demand that mine be replaced, as I think you should. If they are reluctant, there's always the court system. Do not hesitate.
DEAR BRUCE: I was told that credit card companies are required by federal law to retain copies of the original application for credit. They must also provide this original application within 30 days of a request or the cardholder will be absolved of any indebtedness or liability.
Is this correct? -- T.C., via e-mail
DEAR T.C.: According to our contact at the FDIC, they have never heard of such a law. You would be hard pressed to avoid paying any indebtedness that you have incurred. When you filled out your original application and signed your name, you agreed to be responsible for any debts that you incurred. Sorry, but whoever gave you this information is misinformed. You should keep photocopies of all documents that you have
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