Jewish World Review Jan. 4, 2001 / 9 Teves, 5761
Accidents where the victim is responsible; health club heartache; laptop lunacy
DEAR BRUCE: I am writing you with not only tears in my eyes, but with eyes I can barely keep open. I have just completed a cross-country trip from the West Coast to the East. I bought an economy-class ticket, but I certainly didn't get the cheapest of price. The seating on the wide-body airplane, as you know, is rather long. In the seats on both sides of me, as well as in back of me and two in front of me, were lap children. Since the plane was full, the children had to sit in their parents' laps, which made the parents and the children antsy. On top of that, at the risk of being indelicate, diapers weren't changed appropriately. The smells were horrendous. I can't understand how the airlines could seat this many children in one section, knowing that there were others of us around them. It was absolutely impossible to get any rest due to the crying, the shifting of the adults and the unpleasant odors. I think that I am entitled to some kind of refund from the airline. Am I being unreasonable? -- S.N., New York
DEAR S.N.: I'm on your side. I had a trip recently on which there were three or four lap kids suffering from the same diaper disease, and it was a very unpleasant trip. It would seem to me that with a little bit of effort, the airlines could do one of two things: put all of the lap kids together in one section, or spread them out so that the pain would be diminished. It always seems unfair to me that if I bring a puppy on the airplane, I have to pay an extra fee to put him under the seat and he causes absolutely no disruption -- yet parents who bring disruptive tots on planes pay no extra fee.
DEAR BRUCE: About eight months ago I joined a health club. The services they offer have been very, very useful, and I go a couple of times a week to work out. Last week I went down for my workout, and you can imagine my surprise and shock when there was a notice on the door saying that the company had gone bankrupt and the club was closed. This is an independent club -- there are no other branches that I can attend. I have tried to find out if I will get my unused membership back, but so far I have not received any affirmative information. What can I do at this point? -- T.S., via e-mail
DEAR T.S.: Unhappily, you are an unsecured creditor in a bankruptcy, and the likelihood is that you will get little or nothing. You can contact the administrator, whose name should be noted on the notice on the door and get in line, but the overwhelming likelihood is that you are stuck.
DEAR BRUCE: I thought that if I had an accident on someone's premises they were responsible. But I found out differently lately. I went into the supermarket the other day and slipped on a patch of salad oil. As it turned out, the bottle of oil had just been broken by a very small child and the mother was trying to pick up the glass. I came around the corner, stepped in a patch of oil, and down I went. The store personnel were very, very solicitous and took my name. Happily, I was not seriously hurt, but I did go to the emergency room. Their position is that there was no way they could have anticipated this accident because the child had just broken the bottle. As a consequence they will pay for the one visit to the emergency room, as a courtesy, but any other expenses are on me. Is this fair? I feel that at least $1,000 or $2,000 would be appropriate given the fact that I did suffer a good deal. -- G.I., via e-mail
DEAR G.I.: I think that the company is taking a defensible position. What would you have had them do? Swoop down from the ceiling in a micro second to clean up the floor? They did nothing wrong; they had no way of knowing that the floor would be slippery. You, in turn, might be criticized for coming around the corner too quickly -- but the reality is that we all do that. I think that they have been reasonable, and I think you should let the matter
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