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Jewish World Review /Feb. 26, 1999 / 10 Adar, 5759
Dr. Laura
With power comes obligation to lead by example
(JWR) --- (http://www.jewishworldreview.com) A RHODE ISLAND HIGH SCHOOL MONITORED by a representative from Congress voted
40-9 to acquit President Clinton of perjury and obstruction of justice in a mock
trial. The remarkable part of this occurrence was the comment offered by one of
the student jury: "We elected the president to be our economic and policy
leader, not to be a role model. For role models, we can look to sports stars or
Mother Teresa. I want him to run our country," said the 17-year-old.
Huh? The first father of the first family, the leader of the free world, is
exempt from any responsibility as a role model of character, but some guy who
hits, kicks or throws a ball is assigned the position of role model? Does this
student mean Sprewell, Rodman or Tyson? Does this student plan to model his life
after the sports figures exposed in a 1998 Sports Illustrated magazine article
for their arrogance, violence, domestic abuse, drug abuse, alcoholism,
promiscuity and illegitimate children?
Even if you consider this a gross misrepresentation of the majority of those
in sports, why does somebody with the responsibility for the welfare of most of
humanity have less obligation to behave decently than does someone paid to do
something with a ball? As Merredythe Nadeau of North Smithfield, R.I., wrote
with regard to this press story, "How sad that these children believe this and
that they do not look to their leaders as needing to be moral role models."
Charisma does not excuse violating the Ten Commandments, or civil law.
People in power also need to lead by virtue of the quality of their lives,
through integrity and personal courage. Those with power and visibility owe this
to the society. It is one of the obligations of their position.
This student's comments betray cynicism and basic materialism. These young
people don't expect leaders to be anything but technicians, fulfilling appointed
tasks. How naive not to imagine or realize that the quality of a person's
character is, in addition to his intellect and experience, necessary for the
proper fulfillment of those tasks. How naive not to imagine or realize that no
family or society can survive without the glue of trust and respect -- not just
efficiency or effectiveness.
Now to the selection of Mother Teresa as a role model. How many of these
students look at the life of Mother Teresa and are inspired to sacrifice all
material privileges, even their lives, to serve others? How disingenuous to
mention a deservedly hugely respected woman, whose lifestyle was diametrically
opposed to anything these young people have in mind for themselves.
Young people these days seem to look up to TV and movie stars -- basically
the rich, beautiful and famous. This has probably always been so. I, for one, so
wanted to look like Ann-Margret when I was a teen-ager. The problem with the
Rhode Island students is their lack of outrage toward those who betray trust and
obligation when they were entrusted with power. Even if Ann-Margret had done
something "bad" (which is not the case), that wouldn't have changed my desire to
look like her. Movie stars are not trusted public servants with whom we endow
enormous power.
People in positions of power have tremendous responsibilities. When they
betray personal and public trust, it compromises their ability to lead. What a
frightening indictment of our children that instead of outrage, there is a shrug
and a sigh of relief that they will not be held to any higher standard than
their material success.
Views that might have been considered as immature in our children a few
decades ago are being reinforced today by the "what difference does it make
anyway?" rhetoric from too many folks about the White House scandals of
infidelity and alleged perjury and obstruction of justice.
This attitude has infected the workplace, too. The National Association of
Colleges and Employers' Job '99 Outlook collected data for college graduates
outlining the desired qualifications in new hires. Among the top 10 personal
characteristics employers seek in job candidates, ethics fell
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