Jewish World Review June 21, 2004 / 2 Tamuz, 5764
Too nice for his own good?
I've discovered something in the Bush family genes that could, again, be their undoing. They're too nice.
Now I know how angry liberals will no doubt respond to my summation, but I stand by it. And here's why. Find me a public moment, any moment, when either George Bush I or George Bush II has really lit into his critics. About the most worked up I saw the old man get was on broccoli and how he hated it. I remember thinking then, "This boy's got some Italian in him!"
But alas, the anger was short-lived. Decency returned. Calmness prevailed. And a doomed election ensued. My point here is not to take sides in this electoral contest but to illustrate how well-intentioned people can end up getting the shorter end of the stick.
The other day it caught me again, when President Bush was hosting Bill and Hillary Clinton at the White House for the official unveiling of their portraits. The president heaped it on, and I mean really heaped it on. He said the years had proven how good Bill Clinton was for this country, how much he had done for this country, how both Bill and Hillary were great parents to a teenager growing up in the White House, all but saying he could have used some of those same parenting skills for his own rebellious daughters. And he wasn't done. He went on to commend Hillary as the "only U.S. senator whose portrait hangs in the White House." He complimented her style, her commitment and her devotion. He joked with Bill about bravely campaigning for George McGovern in, of all places, Texas. He got a laugh. He never got much else.
Not once did he bring up items like Whitewater, or Monica, or Vince Foster, or that inconvenient issue of Osama and what this prior president could have done or should have done. No, there was none of that. And to be sure, this decorous scene was not the occasion for that. I thought I'd leave well enough alone with this whole issue until Bill Clinton himself got up to speak.
He wasn't nearly so kind, and he wasn't nearly so generous. While he acknowledged the president's graciousness, he didn't pass along one compliment, not one kind tit-for-tat. I wasn't looking for him to praise George Bush . . . after all, they are political opposites. But, please! Couldn't you throw the guy a bone, Bill? Maybe acknowledge he responded well to terror after Sept. 11, or that he's kept us safe in this country since that day? Maybe mention something goofy, like commending the president for the nicknames he gives those pesky White House reporters? Anything?
No. Nada. Zippo. Zilch-a-rino. Perhaps the contempt for this president from this former president is so acute, so intense, that he can't find the words apparently any words to say anything nice. Frankly, I find it classless. But who am I to judge? This guy was elected to two terms as president, gets 10 million smackers to write his memoirs as president, and gets a pile of change to do speeches precisely because he was president.
Maybe Bill had his reasons to hold tight on the compliments. Maybe he's planning to unload on this present White House occupant in that book, or in this upcoming campaign or in all those speeches. I know that's the game, but if things are that tacky, that political and that shallow, I just wish everybody played the game.
It seems to me President Bush is not, or cannot. Believe me, he's no softie. He's tough on terror abroad, but he seems to go light on opponents here. After all, it's not as if Bill Clinton wants him re-elected (actually, maybe he does, to save room for his wife's candidacy in 2008, but that's another issue), so why not be a little more digging, and provide a little more ribbing?
I'd have loved to hear the president say something like, "When you weren't chasing interns, you were looking out for all of us!" I bet that would have gotten a laugh.
I'm being silly, of course. I just wish President Bush would have been silly, because he was way too serious, and way too fawning in commending a guy who has said horrible things about him. That's politics, of course. This president had better realize it, because his dad never did. His dad stuck with people who torpedoed his administration, and the son's picking up where he left off.
There's such a thing as being too gracious. And I fear the Bush family is discovering again the all-too-real results.
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