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If you've driven on the freeway in recent years, been to the grocery store, attended a movie or a live performance — heck, if you've been at all sentient — the findings of a new poll will startle you about as much as the sun rising at dawn and setting at dusk.
America has gotten ruder.
At least, that's how a plurality of Americans perceive the tetchy state of our union.
A poll released by the nonpartisan Pew Research Center found that five years after the start of the COVID-19 pandemic many of those surveyed believe public behavior in the United States has changed for the worse.
Our politics surely have.
"Everything's a war. Everything's a battle. There's no collaboration, no coordination, no civic pride," said Don Sipple, a veteran communications strategist who helped shape campaign messages for George W. Bush, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Jerry Brown, among many others.
The pandemic seems a good starting point to measure the foundering of America's p's and q's, seeing as how it produced the equivalent of a national nervous breakdown and pried a deeply divided country even further apart.
The Pew survey found that just under half of U.S. adults polled — 47% — said the way people behave in public these days is ruder than before the pandemic. Two in 10 said today's behavior is a lot ruder.
Some 44% of adults said public behavior is about the same; 9% said people are behaving a lot or a little more politely in public.
Those latter respondents have presumably been anesthetized, never set foot in the real world or live in a permanent, chemically induced stupor.
How do you — or, rather, how did the Pew researchers — measure rudeness? The behaviors they tested involved, among various trespasses, smoking, swearing and the use of technology around other people.
Of the eight actions mentioned in the survey, two drew the widest disapproval: 77% said it's rarely or never acceptable to smoke around others and 74% said the same about taking a photo or video of someone without their permission.
About two-thirds of adults said it is rarely or never acceptable to bring a child to an adult venue, such as a bar or upscale restaurant; to visibly display swear words, such as on a T-shirt or sign; or to curse out loud in public.
Smaller majorities say it's rarely or never acceptable to play music out loud or to wear headphones or earbuds while talking to someone. In both instances, a sizable number said it depends: Roughly a third said it's sometimes OK to play music out loud, and about a quarter said that about wearing headphones while talking to someone.
The poll found the largest gap in perceived rudeness was between those of different ages.
Older adults were more likely than younger adults to consider it impolite to curse out loud, visibly display profanity or wear headphones or earbuds while talking to someone in person.
Strikingly, in an age when everything seems politicized there were not major differences in viewpoints based on respondents' partisan affiliations. At the very least, Democrats and Republicans agree that wafting cigarette smoke in someone's face and capturing their reaction on video — without first asking — is untoward.
Maybe there's hope for the republic yet.
Not that you'd want to model the behavior of our boorish, foul-mouthed chief executive.
It seemed scandalous — and highly indecorous — back in 1992, when President George H.W. Bush referred to his Democratic rivals, Bill Clinton and Al Gore, as "two bozos."
Bush felt obliged to apologize, as did his son George W., when he was seeking the White House eight years later and a hot mic caught him referring to one of the New York Times' political correspondents as "a major league a —."
Andrew Breitbart, the late conservative website publisher, famously suggested "politics is downstream from culture." But it seems these days the waters have commingled, creating a pool that's increasingly foul-smelling and polluted.
Like a fish, America's manners have rotted from the top down. So, too, our political dialogue.
No wonder people hold their nose — and refuse to take their earbuds out.
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Mark Z. Barabak
Los Angeles Times/(TNS)
Mark Z. Barabak is a columnist for the Los Angeles Times, focusing on politics in California and the West.
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