Jewish World Review April 5, 2002 / 24 Nisan, 5762
How you can help
to stop the torment
What can you do?
That is the question many of you have been asking in the
days since the reports began here about the cruel and
unusual punishment of children -- the very kind of
punishment from which the Constitution protects adults.
The constitutional guarantee addresses the discipline
handed out by courts or governmental agencies -- and
thus does not protect children brutalized privately, in the
name of punishment, by the adults who are supposed to
care for them.
Sometimes all of this seems hopeless -- the stories
keep getting worse -- but hope is worth searching for;
hope, in the end, is all that any of us have. It's what gets
us up in the morning.
If you would like to help -- if these reports have angered
you and kept you awake at night -- here are several
- The Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA)
organization may be the best program in the United
States devoted to helping abused and neglected
children who get lost in the courts system.
CASA volunteers are professionally trained -- and are
then appointed by judges to follow the case of a specific
child through the courts, and to speak to the court on the
child's behalf. This is difficult, serious work -- no one
should decide to do it on a whim. Once you are assigned
to a child, you are his or her best advocate. You can save
a child's life if you do your work with devotion.
CASA is a national organization -- there are CASA
programs in every state. If you would like information
about joining -- and again, this is not something to get
into lightly -- the telephone number is 1-800-628-3233.
If you think a child is being hurt in a criminal way, most
states have hotlines set up by child protective agencies.
If you don't know whether you should make the call, you
should make the call. Tell the person on the other end of
the line what is troubling you about what you have seen;
the person will tell you what to do next.
If directory assistance tells you it is unsure of what
number you should call, call 1-800-4-A-CHILD. The
person who answers will put you in touch with someone
in your state who can get help for a child being hurt.
There is an organization called Prevent Child Abuse
America that has information about how you can help
children who are being tormented. You can learn about
this group at their Web site
(www.preventchildabuse.org), or contact them at
You can -- and should -- try to persuade court officials in your state to allow into
evidence videotaped testimony of children who have been tortured. This makes it less
traumatic and more humane for a child to tell what has happened to him or her than if
he or she has to testify while the accused abuser stares at the witness stand. So
many times, these cases dissolve because the children who have been tortured are
terrified to speak while the person who has hurt them is a few feet away, glaring.
There are all kinds of safeguards with videotaped testimony that make certain the
accused abusers' rights are protected in court. Yet in some jurisdictions, if the children
are too fragile to speak in the presence of the people arrested for torturing them, the
children lose again. In Dane County, Wis., where the videotaped testimony of the
8-year-old girl brutalized by her mother, Olga L. Jaramillo, was allowed, Jaramillo was
convicted and faces a potential sentence of more than 200 years in prison. In Lincoln
County, Neb., where the 7-year-old son of torturer Sean Von Eric Marshall was
deemed too afraid to testify with Marshall sitting close to him, and where the child was
not allowed to testify on videotape, Marshall avoided trial and got a plea break of 90
days in the county jail. That's the difference -- the appalling difference -- right there.
If no one else will listen, prosecutors and police officers advise: Call 911. If you think
you have observed a crime against a child, then treat it as such. If the person who
answers doesn't seem to be taking the call seriously, insist on speaking to his or her
supervisor. Be relentless -- at that moment, you may be the one person in the world
with the power to help the child.
Hopeless? At times it seems so. But as long as you care, and refuse to turn your back,
there is no such thing as hopeless. You are
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