In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review May 12, 2008 / 7 Iyar 5768

Has Hillary Clinton learned that for female voters, gender is an issue, not the issue? Trying to be all things to all people is losing proposition

By Kathleen Parker

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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Women. What do they really want?

That question has been replaying in the imaginations of politicians, pollsters, purveyors and pundits since Sigmund Freud first framed it. Freud concluded, of course, that women really wanted to be men and invented a theory of envy that women find compelling only after too many Diet Cokes and no rest area for miles.

Otherwise, um, no thanks.

Though Freud is unwelcome in most intellectual parlors these days, Hillary Clinton's candidacy has made the father of psychology seem prescient. In recent weeks, Clinton seems to have picked up a Y chromosome somewhere and morphed into the manliest of Democrats.

The candidate who initially aimed for the women's vote, calling her campaign a "conversation" and convening "chats," has suddenly swilled beer and Crown Royal chasers with boys in the bar, stumped from pickups and displayed her "testicular fortitude," as an Indiana labor leader recently described her.

The women's vote, meanwhile, has splintered. Important feminist leaders — including Susan Sarandon, Nation columnist Katha Pollitt and women's rights historians Alice Kessler-Harris and Linda Gordon — side with Barack Obama. And black women vote overwhelmingly for the black candidate (about 80%).

What happened? Though Clinton has done well with women — who have constituted about 60% of voters in Democratic primaries — why aren't more of them supporting the first woman with a shot at the presidency? Or are these questions not really the right ones to ask? Is it possible that it isn't A Woman voters are rejecting, but a particular woman? Is it possible Clinton is the wrong candidate, who just happens to be a woman?

A complete postmortem on Clinton's campaign might be premature, but a few observations are possible. We know, for instance, that Clinton has been doing best among older women. She also has earned the support of working-class women, an unlikely group given Clinton's unfamiliarity with that particular club.

Is their loyalty a function of Clinton's generous health and family leave plans? Or did her tears in a coffee shop touch the hearts of women similarly battle-weary and worn down?

Probably a little of both. Older women remember the struggles of their generation and Clinton's. And though working women might not share Clinton's Ivy League education and limousine life, they know something about making do.

As for renegades to Obama's camp, well, to each her own. Well-educated, better-employed women might identify more with the young, progressive couple from Chicago than with their less-fortunate sisters. Then again, they might just think Obama is the better candidate.

Obama is, for certain, the more feminine of the two.

Clinton is the tough, gritty pugilist who makes "Rocky Balboa look like a pansy," according to North Carolina Gov. Mike Easley. She's the one who voted for the war in Iraq and who has promised annihilation to Iran should that country attack Israel.

Obama, graceful as a ballet dancer even when guttering his bowling ball, never supported the war. He's the one who really wants to chat — even with America's long-standing enemies. While he ponders a question, letting it roll around the lush valleys of his cultivated mind, she blurts populist bromides that sound more Bushian than Clintonian:

"I'm not going to put my lot in with economists," she said on ABC's This Week when asked for the name of an economist who agrees with her proposed gas-tax summer vacation. And then: "Elite opinion is always on the side of doing things that really disadvantages the vast majority of Americans."

Bring 'em on, sister! Elitism sucketh.

The answer to the question of what women want might no longer be a mystery. They want lots of different things — not just "women things." They aren't monolithic, nor are they necessarily more fickle than men. They are diverse, smart, successful, strong, savvy and sometimes, like men, they're not.

What they clearly don't want is a woman president just because she's a woman. If Clinton loses, it won't be because women betrayed her. It will be because Obama offered something that women — and men — want more. A fresh start free of tired tropes and battered baggage.

Giving Clinton her due, she has made history. She got up every day and kept smiling. She looked good and sometimes great, and older women marveled at her stamina. Not least, she prevailed in nearly every debate.

But her losses are her own. It was Hillary Clinton — that particular woman, not A Woman — who failed to cinch the destiny she presumed to be hers. In trying to be all things to all people — an amorphous, tough-talking, beer-swilling, truck-stumping Mighty Hermaphrodite — rather than the whoever she really is, Clinton lost voters' confidence.

Women, it turns out, are like men. They want a president they can trust.

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