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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

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Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

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Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

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John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

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April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

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Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

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April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

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April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

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April 8, 2014

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April 2, 2014

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Jewish World Review Nov. 14, 2005 / 12 Mar-Cheshvan, 5766

Bad case of us vs. them

By Mitch Albom

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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Quickly, now, Detroit-area residents. Who's your mayor?

If you thought "Kwame Kilpatrick," answer a second question. Do you live in Detroit?

Chances are, you may not. Chances are, you live in the Detroit suburbs. Chances are, you can't name the mayor of your actual town.

But that's OK. That's how it works with city suburbs. Those who live over the bridges from New York still had strong opinions about Rudy Giuliani. And suburban Chicagoans still argued endlessly about Richard Daley.

After all, these people work in the city. They shop in the city. They pay wage taxes to the city. They identify with the city. (You call yourself a "Detroiter," not a "Southfielder" or a "Dearborner," right?)

Which may explain why, last week, so many Detroit suburbanites were upset with the mayoral election last week, which Kilpatrick won.

And why so many Detroiters seemed to enjoy their discomfort.

Freman Hendrix was viewed as the suburban choice. Kwame Kilpatrick was proven to be the city choice. Somehow, this also melted into Hendrix as the white population's candidate and Kilpatrick as the black population's candidate.

Us versus them.

And Rome burns.

Look, we had better understand something right now. Eight Mile is not a moat. The City of Detroit cannot survive without support from the suburbs. And if the city goes under, the suburbs will suffer, too.

This idea that "Kwame is our guy and no suburban elitists are gonna tell us how to vote" is not the way you should choose a mayor.

And this suburban belief that "we can see so much better that Hendrix is best for Detroit" is not an entitlement, not to people who don't make up Detroit's neighborhoods. Detroit is a city that is hemorrhaging citizens almost as fast as it is hemorrhaging money. It has taxes that are out of line. It has staffing woes in every basic service, from teachers to police officers. It has bankruptcy staring it in the calendar, just as the Super Bowl is coming to town.

And what do Detroit-area residents spend time on? Pointing fingers and telling each other, "You don't have the right to determine my future."

I've heard Detroiters say, "All the suburbs care about is having safe streets when they come to a ball game." Well. It's not all they care about. But does that make safe streets a race issue? Doesn't everyone want safe streets?

I've heard people say, "How can Detroiters like that whole hip-hop thing in their mayor?" Well, wait a minute. Kilpatrick is 35, black and, yes, hip (which is what we used to call hip-hop). He's also educated and successful. Isn't that part of the population we want to cultivate?

In the run-up to this election, the mayor accused suburban kids of being drug addicts.

And there were ads suggesting that Hendrix would sell the "jewels" of the city to suburban greed.

If the city and the suburbs keep sticking it to each other, they each lose. There is no safety net for an American city. It can stumble and teeter — as Detroit is doing now — but it also can fall, die and disappear. The federal government will not hold it up. Check out St. Louis. Fifty years ago, it was the eighth biggest city in the country.

Today, it isn't even in the top 50.

It is possible, sadly, to envision a day when the jobs, the big office buildings, the casinos, the restaurants and the sports stadiums are all in Novi and Sterling Heights, and what used to be called downtown Detroit is just a husk of a place, with citizens too poor to provide a tax base.

And if that happens, and you trace back its history, you will find it began the day the city and the suburbs enjoyed the war more than the peace.

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