In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review May 28, 2013/ 19 Sivan 5773

Offended? Kick Non-PC Kids off Campus

By Lenore Skenazy

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Do you have a right not to be offended, ever, by anything anyone else says or does? If you find someone boorish, insensitive or prejudiced, can you just say you're offended and — poof — that person disappears?

Pretty much, yes. If you're at college and you're offended by someone's remark of a sexual nature, that is now enough to get that person kicked off campus.

For this, we must thank the federal departments of Justice and Education, which earlier this month jointly issued a new "blueprint" for colleges and universities, which defines harassment down. Before, harassment was defined as something "objectively offensive" — something a reasonable person would find completely unconscionable. Now? Any "unwelcome conduct of a sexual nature" is considered harassment, including unwelcome speech.

Unwelcome! We're not talking about threatening speech or a hideous demand, such as, "Sleep with me, or you get an F." Now the threshold is simply speech that someone (the person no longer has to be reasonable) finds unwelcome. I keep flashing back on a high-strung girl I was friends with in college who was ready to murder a boy who asked her out once but not twice. If it were today and he uttered, "Sorry, but you don't turn me on," she could have him legally booted off campus. After all, the remark is of a sexual nature, and it certainly would be unwelcome!

"It's impossible to prevent everyone from being offended every time," says Greg Lukianoff, author of "Unlearning Liberty: Campus Censorship and the End of American Debate" and president of the Foundation for Individual Rights in Education. (Buy the book for (24% off the cover price by clicking here or in KINDLE at a 50% discount by clicking here)

In the past, universities were instructed only to punish conduct that was "persistent, punitive and objectionably offensive."

But now if a sociology class were discussing women in combat and one student raised his hand to say, "I don't want ladies on the front lines, because if I'm shot, I want someone with a lot of upper body strength to drag me to safety," would that be the jumping-off point for a lively discussion?

Or would it be the end of that student's college career?

After all, someone in the class might find the remark both sexual — he is talking about male bodies vs. female bodies — and unwelcome. How dare anyone say women don't belong on the front lines! Such politically incorrect sentiments can now be prosecuted.

If this sounds as if I'm an alarmist just imagining the worst-case scenarios, consider a few cases that already made their way to the courts, even before this new edict. One concerns a student in a creative writing class in which the female professor encouraged everyone to write his or her "impressions" — even sexy ones — in a journal. When one student scribbled that he found her hot, she turned him in for harassment.

The school suspended him for three semesters.

Another time, a young man who was tired of students taking the dorm elevator up or down just a single floor made a flier joking that girls could lose the "freshman 15" (that is, the 15 pounds some kids gain on dorm food) by taking the stairs. The flier added, "Not only will u feel better about yourself but you will also be saving us time and won't be sore on the eyes."

For that bit of sexism, he was kicked out of the dorm, put on two years' probation and forced to undergo mandatory psychological counseling.

If you ask me, he'd need the counseling after that kind of punishment.

As a feminist through and through, I believe that sexism still exists and that it's good to point it out and discuss it. But how can people discuss anything on campus when whatever they say about men, women, sex or even freshman flubber can and will be used against them?

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