In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review March 14, 2013/ 3 Nissan, 5773

Think Less About the Children

By Lenore Skenazy

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | You know, maybe we should take a break from our favorite pastime. Maybe we should not always "think of the children!" Maybe we've been thinking too hard, too often and too irrationally when it comes to their safety and well-being. Maybe they'd be better off with a little less of our obsessing.

Allow me to present two opposite sides of this argument. On the one hand, we have Illinois, where the state officials have been tripping over themselves to show just how much they care about kids and how endangered they think they are.

There we have the comptroller, Judy Baar Topinka, and state Rep. Jack Franks and state Sen. Tim Bivins joining forces with local law enforcement leaders to float the idea that it is time to stop making schools polling places for voting citizens.

"I just know in my heart of hearts that if we continue to allow this, someday we are going to have a version of Sandy Hook," said Topinka.

Really? A type of tragedy that has occurred so infrequently in American history that we all can remember each horrific incident — that's something she is certain is going to happen again? In Illinois? Because of voters in the schools?

"We can probably predict with certainty that at some point in time, we will have another Sandy Hook," Bivins asserted. Ah, the old prediction with probable certainty! They don't call 'em politicians for nothing. Bivins continued, "We don't like to think about that." (Are you kidding? Politicians love to think about kids in danger. Gives them instant stature and votes.) "But we need to be prepared, and I think this bill is a good start."

Yes, it's always wise to start by outlawing an activity that never has posed a threat. But that's exactly what politicians have been trained to do. Worse, so has our entire culture. The drill is: Look at an object, and imagine how it could, in some bizarre instances, just possibly harm someone (especially an innocent child) — and then act as if that threat were imminent.

That's how you end up with things such as labels on strollers that say, "Remove baby before folding." Some company lawyer had to look at the stroller exactly the same way some trial lawyer could look at it. ("Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, the stroller did not warn my client of the risks of folding the baby inside.") And then the company goes on to warn the public about an exceedingly unlikely danger. Or maybe the stroller simply gets outlawed. This happens with products, and it happens with anything having to do with play.

Which brings us to the other side of the coin: a new edict by Britain's Health and Safety Executive saying it's time to stop always imagining the worst-case scenario and using that as the basis for laws. The straightforward edict told everyone from policymakers down to playground designers to ditch the "misguided security blanket" of policies and paperwork excessively dedicated to eradicating every last wisp of risk from children's play.

In an era that has seen schools and parks ban everything from tag to teeter-totters on the very off chance that some child could get seriously injured, the statement said assessments should focus on "the real risk, not the trivial and fanciful." Moreover, it begged bureaucrats to understand that looking at play solely through the lens of risk and liability has meant losing sight of the fact that mostly, playing at the park is good for kids.

Look through the lens of risk and kids can't play on the playgrounds and voters can't vote in the schools. Two proud traditions threatened by delusions of danger and thinking too ridiculously about the children.

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