In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review April 21, 2010 / 7 Iyar 5770

New account reinforces a serviceman's valor

By Michael Smerconish

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Nearly three years ago, I wrote about U.S. Navy SEAL Marcus Luttrell, who published an enthralling nonfiction account of the events of June 28, 2005, the deadliest day in SEAL history.

In painstaking detail, Luttrell recounted in "Lone Survivor" how three of his colleagues on SEAL Team 10 were killed in the Hindu Kush region of Afghanistan as they tracked a high-ranking Taliban officer with ties to Osama bin Laden. An MH-47 Chinook helicopter carrying reinforcements was shot down by Taliban forces, resulting in the deaths of eight more SEALs and eight Army Night Stalkers, an elite special-ops unit.

At the center of the story was SEAL Team 10's encounter with three goat herders who unwittingly interrupted a dangerous covert operation in the deadliest place in the world.

As Luttrell detailed in his book, he and his teammates — Lt. Michael Murphy and Petty Officers Matthew G. Axelson and Danny P. Dietz — were hiding in broad daylight in the mountains along the Afghan-Pakistan border when the unarmed goat herders stumbled upon them.

The SEALs were faced with an unenviable dilemma: Let the herders go — and risk that they would reveal the SEALs' location to the Taliban — or kill them.

Luttrell described the ensuing deliberation and vote. He wrote that Axelson wanted to kill the herders and Dietz was noncommittal. Murphy voted to let them go, a call with which Luttrell ultimately agreed — and later came to regret. He wrote that his decision was "the stupidest, most Southern-fried, lamebrained decision I ever made in my life."

An hour later, the SEAL team was surrounded by 80 to 100 Taliban fighters. Pinned down, heavily outmanned, and running out of ammo as the vicious battle wore on, Murphy stepped out from behind his cover and into the line of fire to attempt a satellite call for reinforcements. When we spoke in late 2007, Luttrell recalled that Murphy, after being shot while making the call, nonetheless said "thank you" after calmly reporting the team's location and requesting immediate backup.

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Murphy, Axelson and Dietz all died on the mountain. Luttrell, who had to drag his wounded body several miles before finding refuge with an Afghan villager, was the only one to survive. He was awarded the Navy Cross by President George W. Bush. Dietz and Axelson received that award posthumously.

Murphy was posthumously awarded the Medal of Honor, the nation's highest military honor for valor in combat. He was the first American to be so recognized for post-9/11 actions in Afghanistan and the first SEAL since Vietnam to receive the award.

Now, with the cooperation of Murphy's father, Daniel, a new book is about to be released shedding additional light on this remarkable story. "Seal of Honor: Operation Red Wings and the Life of Lt. Michael P. Murphy, USN" was written by Ohio-based author Gary Williams and will be published May 5.

On the decision of whether the goat herders should live or die, Williams debunks that a vote was taken.

"Despite their open discussion that day, each man understood that the team structure was not a democracy — there was to be no consensus, and there would be no voting," Williams writes. "After requesting and receiving appropriate and valuable input from the other members of his team, the final decision unquestionably would be made by the team leader, Lieutenant Michael Murphy."

Williams then identifies nine "important pieces of information" that were essential to making that decision, including the fact that "these three individuals were clearly civilian goat herders."

Daniel Murphy sees the account in the new book as consistent with what Luttrell wrote.

"I think both Marcus' version and the way it's portrayed in 'Seal of Honor' is actually correct, depending on your perspective," the elder Murphy, himself a Vietnam veteran, said in a recent interview. "Marcus is looking at the decision from basically an enlisted man's idea that, 'I made a decision and the goat herders left and the men were killed.'" That mind-set, Murphy told me, is actually revealing of his son's leadership style — apparent even in the most desperate of situations.

Michael Murphy's favorite historical figure, his father recalled, was Abraham Lincoln. Daniel Murphy remembers his son spoke admiringly of how President Lincoln would go about making decisions. Already knowing what he wanted to do, Lincoln would nevertheless direct the conversation so his Cabinet and aides would ultimately arrive at his desired conclusion — while at the same time emerging with the belief that they had, in fact, made the decision collectively.

The elder Murphy says he believes that in the same way, his son had brought his team "to understand that the only option is to let them go, that there was no other decision that could be made."

"And rather than Michael just making a flat-out order — they're going to be released, I don't care what you men think — Michael's idea of leadership was to bring his men around to believing the only proper option was to release them," he said.

There's no ill will between Luttrell and the Murphy family. As Daniel Murphy acknowledged, Luttrell's survival ensured that the world would learn of his son's selflessness.

In the same way, the divergent recollections of an unenviable deliberation allow us to steal a glimpse into the acumen of the quintessential post-9/11 American hero: Lt. Michael Murphy.

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