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Mona Charen
Of fingernails and freedom
A 9-YEAR-OLD girl comes to school with long fingernails painted pink. Yes, it's certainly
evidence of a children pushed into adolescence too fast, but that's not the point here.
The teacher clips them short.
That evening, the teacher gets a knock on her door.
When she opens it, she is served with a warrant for criminal assault and battery.
This is America, where respect for authority has sunk lower than respect for the truth in
Washington, D.C.
According to The Washington Post, the Virginia teacher noticed that the child was
playing with her long nails and sent a note home asking that they be trimmed. The
mother says not only did she trim the nails, but she also polished them.
Apparently believing that the nails were not cut short enough, the teacher took matters
into her own hands.
Perhaps she ought not to have done so. She could have called the child's mother and
discussed the nail controversy with her. If the teacher wanted to play hardball, she
could have insisted that the mother collect the girl and not return her to the classroom
until the child's nails were an appropriate length for a 9-year-old.
But even putting all of that aside, the teacher was still acting well within the limits of
sanity when she did what she did.
Can we say the same about this mother?
There was a Pennsylvania case a few years ago in which a teacher cut off four inches
of a sixth grade girl's hair as punishment and was fired for it. And there have been
other, even more extreme examples of teacher malfeasance (such as a widespread
failure to teach the subjects they are paid to teach). But by what twisted reasoning
does cutting a child's nails constitute assault and battery? A magistrate actually
approved this.
Actually, this mother is not at all unusual. Classroom discipline has not eroded over
time due to global warming. It was the increasing unwillingness of parents to support
and reinforce the discipline of teachers that undermined the teacher's classroom
authority. When my parents were young, teachers were crossed only at great risk. Not
only did teachers themselves deliver corporal punishment, but parents often punished
their children for getting punished at school. By the time I was
in school, talking back had become acceptable, though we still lived with a healthy
amount of fear.
Today, of course, it is more often teachers who live in fear -- sometimes even terror. It
is more common in 1990s America to read of teachers assaulted and even shot than it
is to hear of teachers striking students.
One needn't believe in corporal punishment to recognize that for a generation, parents
steeped in the excessive individualism of the 1960s have seen it as their duty not to
raise polite and respectful children but rather to ensure that their little geniuses' talents
be offered full scope to develop. Schools, against their own interest, reinforced this
with a syrupy focus on self-esteem.
Individualism is at the heart of the American creed, but individualism unmixed with
heavy doses of concern with order and community leads to chaos -- and to nonsense
like an assault charge for cutting a child's nails.
So much has been sacrificed at the altar of individualism. Children have been urged to
express themselves at the expense of filling their minds with facts. And when they do
set about the business of learning, they've had to contend with all manner of
distractions as their classmates express their individuality with purple hair, nose rings
and tattoos.
But, at last, order is making a comeback. In scores of school districts around the
nation, school uniforms have been adopted. The ACLU objects, of course, but even
New York City is now considering requiring all students to wear uniforms. In Long
Beach, Calif., which instituted school uniforms in 1991, the policy has been associated
with a 76 percent drop in school crime, the highest attendance records in 17 years and
improved morale among teachers and students alike.
There will always be tension between freedom and order. But when order is sacrificed
completely, freedom cannot endure. That's why it's a relief to see the pendulum
swinging
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