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May 24, 2012
Jeff Jacoby: The peace process battered Israel's reputation
Michael Muskal: 'Pro-choice' position hits record low, according to poll
Chris Farrell: Are We in a Tech Bubble?
The Kosher Gourmet by Penelope Wall: PHILLY CHEESE STEAKS --- hold the steak!
May 23, 2012
Tony Pugh: More private colleges offering tuition discounts
Mary Beth Franklin: How to Choose the Right Annuity for You
Tina Susman: The wig wasn't enough: Man gets 13 years for posing as his dead mom
The Kosher Gourmet by Emma Christensen:A simple way to do fish right
May 22, 2012
Warren Richey: Can US group challenge overseas surveillance act? Supreme Court to decide
Thomas M. Anderson: Walking Away From a Mortgage
The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon: Enjoy a celebration of the most rich and layered flavors: Black bean, sweet potato and quinoa chili
May 21, 2012
Mark Clayton: Cybersecurity: How US utilities passed up chance to protect their networks
Howard LaFranchi: NATO summit: Who will foot the bill for long-term Afghanistan security?
Chris Farrell : Earn Dividends in Emerging Markets with This WisdomTree ETF
Stephen Whiteside, Ph.D. : Mayo Clinic Medical Edge: Social anxiety disorder --- or just shy?
Guy Jackson : Victim's father regrets death of Lockerbie bomber
The Kosher Gourmet by Mario Batali: Famed chef's veal shoulder farsumagru: A festive meat course for late spring
May 18, 2012
Rabbi Berel Wein: Striving: The People of the Book's Book for (All of) the People
Steven Goldberg: 5 Great Stock Picks and the Exchange-Traded Fund that Owns Them
Mary Pickett, M.D.: Ask the Harvard Experts: Don't be forced into gluten-free lifestyle based merely on a doctor's false-positive test
The Kosher Gourmet by Carolyn Malcoun: DIY healthy lunchbox treats: HOMEMADE FRUIT BARS for kids and brown-bagging adults alike
May 17, 2012
Warren Richey: Teacher fired for being unwed and pregnant can sue religious school, court rules
Josh Mitnick: Netanyahu's 'centrist' coalition is already proving it's anything but
Steven Goldberg: Earn Dividends in Emerging Markets with This WisdomTree ETF
Amina Khan: Research links coffee to lower death rates
The Kosher Gourmet by Faith Duran : Cheesy Potato Breakfast Casserole with Cheddar and Sun-Dried Tomatoes
May 16, 2012
Carmen Terzic, M.D., Ph.D. : Mayo Clinic Medical Edge: A variety of exercises can help improve balance
Melissa Healy: National strategy on Alzheimer's disease aims to halt it by 2025
The Kosher Gourmet by Joyce White : GOODNESS GRACIOUS: GREENS! 4 winning recipes that are no longer just for down-home folks (Includes expert tips & techniques)
May 15, 2012
Kristen Chick: Obama administration resumes arms sales to Bahrain despite serious unresolved human rights issues. Activists feel abandoned
Pat Mertz Esswein: Homes are now affordable again and mortgage rates are low. What you need to know before you buy
Kathy Kristof: Our Practical Investor Fights Inflation with These 6 Investments
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The Kosher Gourmet by Kathy Hunt: Spread a Little Excitement with EXOTIC CONDIMENTS (4 RECIPES)
May 14, 2012
Lisa Gerstner: How to Protect Your Identity, Finances If You Lose Your Phone
Harvard Health Letters: Heart disease and dementia
The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon: MANGO COCONUT OAT MORNING MUFFINS are a bright but hearty delight
May 11, 2012
Jessica L. Anderson: Get the Best Deal on a Used Car
Jett Stone: Forget face-lifts and fake knees. Scientists have seen the fountain of youth --- and it's broccoli
The Kosher Gourmet by Chef Mario Batali: The famed chef's vegetable dish that tastes true to the season: FAVAS AND SUGAR SNAP PEAS WITH POTATOES AND TARRAGON
May 10, 2012
Sergei L. Loiko: Putin sends warning to U.S., NATO in Victory Day speech at Red Square
Mary Rourke: How being a 'mentch' got Vidal Sasoon his start and fighting in Israel's War of Independence provided him with confidence and a strong sense of his own identity
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The Kosher Gourmet by Betty Rosbottom: Gleaming with its golden, crimson, and snowy white hues, this silken smooth and creamy STRAWBERRY ORANGE TRIFLE looks impressive, but is easy to prepare
May 9, 2012
Sharon Palmer, R.D. How you can reduce your risk -- or delay -- chronic diseases associated with aging
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Jewish World Review
The Power of Just, Part II
By Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
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"The quality of your life is the quality of your on-going self-talk!"Most people unconsciously engage in internal self-talk, and in this series, best-selling author Rabbi Zelig Pliskin guides the reader to achieve conscious awareness of meandering mental chatter and to transform it into a steady stream of purposeful thought.
Previously, we discussed some phrases that will overcome distress, accomplish despite difficulties, and experience more joy. We listed them. Now, we'll elaborate.
"Just apologize." Sincerely apologizing is the best way to overcome
the resentment and negative feelings of someone who is angry
with you. However, at times it can be very difficult to apologize.
When you tell yourself, "Just apologize," it can become easier.
If you really did something wrong, you have an obligation to
apologize. At times, it's wisest to apologize even if you aren't really
at fault. Your apology can create harmony. Have the strength and
courage to "just apologize." Your sincere apology will totally calm
some people. Even if you need to apologize a number of times and
find the right things to say each time, your initial apology is still the
first step forward.
"Just ask." You might find it difficult to ask someone a question
or to ask someone to help you out. Telling yourself, "Just ask," might
make it easier. Before saying these two words, you might have been
debating whether or not to ask. Even though you know you have a
right to ask and that it will be beneficial to ask, you feel a bit uncomfortable.
As you say to yourself, "Just ask," you might just go ahead
and actually ask. In most situations you will find that asking is much
easier than you had expected.
"Just be." In some situations you might be trying too hard to
impress others. Or you might be overly concerned with how other
people see you and what they think about you. You might be causing
yourself anxiety and nervousness about how to act and how to
project yourself. "Just be" could be the best advice for you at these
moments. Don't try so hard. Don't be overly concerned. "Just be"
implies that you will just be your real and authentic self. Taking off
the unnecessary pressure will enable you to be your best without
worrying about it.
"Just bliss." When you say, "Just bliss," to yourself, you might
remember how you felt when you experienced blissful feelings in
the past. Your mind will access blissful times and moments from
your life. Or you might create blissful feelings now, without recalling
any specific incidents of being blissful.
As long as you've actually experienced bliss at any time and in
any context, right now you might be able to create blissful feelings.
You might find that saying these words only a few times won't
change your feelings. But if you close your eyes and calmly repeat,
"Just bliss," many times, you might be able to create these feelings.
This is especially beneficial before praying. When you allow yourself
to experience bliss before communicating with the Almighty, it will
greatly add to your spiritual experiences.
"Just breathe." You are always breathing throughout the day.
Sometimes you are not aware of your breathing. You aren't thinking
about it and breathing is not on your conscious mind. But awareness
of your breathing enables you to feel a greater amount of gratitude
to the Creator for His benevolence and kindness in giving you an
abundance of oxygen to keep you alive and well.
Telling yourself, "Just breathe," can be especially helpful when
you are anxious or angry. Breathing slowly and deeply melts anxiety
and anger. First of all, by focusing on your breathing instead of on
the cause of your anxiety or anger, you are not adding to the distressing
feelings. Your mind and body work together. So when you
consciously breathe slowly and deeply, your brain accesses a calmer
state of mind. This also enables you to think with greater clarity.
"Just breathe" can be good advice to calm your nerves right before
you take a test. Your memory will function at a higher level.
More tomorrow
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