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Jewish World Review Nov. 14, 2006 / 23 Mar-Cheshvan, 5767

Climbing Maslow's Pyramid

By Rosally Saltsman

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Rethinking one of psychology's most accepted theories | Anyone who has taken psychology 101 has heard of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, also referred to as Maslow's pyramid because it is usually depicted as such.

Dr. Maslow identified the universal needs of every human being and classified them going from most basic to highest. His claim was that a person would not be able to realize his true potential and attend to his higher needs unless his lower needs were met. For example someone who is on the brink of starvation will not worry about getting his doctorate (unless trying to get his doctorate is the cause of his starvation).

Maslow's hierarchy lists human needs in this order: Physiological needs (food, water, air); Safety needs (shelter from cold, rain, snow, katyushas); belongingness needs (friends, family, community); Esteem needs (a job, appreciation, a title); Self Actualization needs (reaching one's creative potential, having one's article published).

On the surface, Maslow's argument makes sense. One occupied with basic survival will not have the time or energy to worry about making the social register, being published or receiving the Nobel prize. The ephemeral would be eclipsed by the basic physiological requirements of existence.

Although Dr. Maslow's model is one of the few things that I remember from psychology 101, it is easy to disprove. Firstly, much of the world's art and literature has come from people starving in garrets and living hand to mouth under leaky roofs. Need proof? Just go have a look at a Van Gogh or listen to Mozart. We wouldn't have much of our art and music if it weren't for starving writers and musicians living in angst and poverty.

Lehavdil, there are many brilliant Torah commentaries that were written by Rabbis living in poverty and cold and suffering persecution. Moreover, they claimed that their high level of erudition was a direct result of their poverty and even today many yeshivahs purposely maintain a spartan environment to increase the learning potential of their students. Bnei Brak is on of the poorest areas of Israel yet it is a bastion of Torah learning. Many of Judaism's greatest men and women were people who lived in meager circumstances yet rose above them to achieve a level of spiritual actualization that Maslow couldn't even imagine. Moreover, in many cases it was not in spite of but because of their dire circumstances that the allowed them to rise to the high spiritual levels that they did.

But the main thing wrong with Maslow's premise is that it goes counter to the basic premise of Judaism. The greatest self-actualization according to Judaism is achieving closeness to G-d. And the way to achieve closeness to G-d is to perform mitzvahs, the 613 commandments. Mitzvahs have no prerequisite preconditions. You do not need to be rich or even have a roof over your head to do a mitzvah. A person who doesn't have a lot to eat but makes a blessing on the food and shares it with others has sanctified both the food and himself before G-d. A person who doesn't earn much money but tithes it to share with those less well off than himself has performed an act of selflessness that defies his lower nature.

Maslow's premise, that we can only reach the higher parts of ourselves when our lowest needs are met doesn't take into account, our divine soul. It reduces our soul to the level of an animal. People have the tremendous capacity to overcome their circumstances and act in noble and G-dly ways even when they don't have all the resources at their disposal.

Many stories have been written about the self-sacrifice of Jews during the Holocaust to perform mitzvahs and to help others. But we don't have to go so far back. Roi Klein. The soldier who jumped on a grenade in July to save his fellow soldiers, relinquished his safety needs for a higher goal, the highest goal, saving the life of another. All the volunteers who went up North in last summer's war to help families huddling in shelters did not wait until it was safe to do so. Clearly personal safety was not a precondition for these people to achieve self-actualization.

Yom Kippur the holiest day of the year is the time when most Jews reach their highest point of transcendence. This is done not only in spite of the fact that they have no food or water for 25 hours but because of it. They are able to humble themselves before their Creator when they overcome their most basic physical desires in order to serve Him.

And while there is no question that friends and family enrich our lives, achieving success is not predicated upon their existence. Israel was built by the orphans of the Holocaust who bereft of family, friends and any relic of their past identities built the land of Israel physically and spiritually.

It would appear then that Maslow's pyramid lacks a solid foundation. Jewish history has shown that there is nothing that can stop a Jew from reaching the top and rising above his physical limitations when he connects to his spiritual essence.

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JWR contributor Rosally Saltsman is an author and feature writer based in Petach Tikva, Israel, where she lives with her son, Josh, who inspires a lot of her work. Comment by clicking here.


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