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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

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Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

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Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

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April 4, 2014

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Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

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April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

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Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

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Jewish World Review Oct. 11, 2005 / 8 Tishrei, 5766

We've come a long way, baby?

By Kathryn Lopez

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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | I suspect that I should be having warm, fuzzy "we girls can do anything" feelings about being a woman this fall.

Just think about the fairer sex's collective accomplishments: Geena Davis is president of the United States! And didn't President Bush answer calls to appoint a woman to the Supreme Court, just to meet some perceived quota rule, when he named his pal Harriet Miers to the Supreme Court?

In short, instead of being the inspiration to women I'm sure someone thinks they are, the two events lead me to one solid conclusion: Blue-staters — in D.C. and Hollywood — do a darn good job making women look silly.

Take first the lighter of the two fall phenomena: "Commander in Chief," the new ABC drama about the first woman president. The White House Project, a group whose purpose is to make sure that a woman makes it to the White House someday, encouraged women to hold parties to celebrate this supposedly groundbreaking drama.

Ironically, I watch "Commander in Chief" and just get depressed. The first message of the show seems to be that women can only be elected president through a back door. In "Commander in Chief," Davis' character only becomes our national leader because she is the vice president to a president who, as milestone luck would have it, dies. But before he goes he makes clear that he believes she shouldn't be president. The Speaker of the House thinks she's a joke.

The second message I get from "Commander in Chief" is: Women are silly. "If Moses had been a woman, leading the Jews out of Egypt, she'd have stopped to ask for directions." Are we really supposed to take that kind of caricatured dialogue seriously? Most professional women I know — many of them in the Beltway political world, as it happens — are not playing juvenile Battle of the Sexes games. They're just out doing their jobs and proving themselves like everyone else. And that's how (ideally, anyway) women rise — on merit. Do the job, measure up on any objective scale, and you'll be in the pool of the qualified and successful. "Just do it," as the sneaker commercial advised. Not in a dumbed-down "well-here's-the-best-the-women-can-do" category. To do otherwise — to make that separate category — is insulting and unnecessary.

Or that's how I hoped things worked among the serious. But the "Prez Geena" nonsense seems to have infiltrated my often-beloved Bush White House. At least this is the message I take from the Harriet Miers nomination to the Supreme Court.

Whatever the criteria the president used to choose Miers for his second Supreme Court nomination, there are few who believe she wasn't picked, perhaps first and foremost, because she's a woman.

There was an erroneous conventional wisdom that the president simply had to nominate a woman: That the Sandra Day O'Connor seat is a woman's seat on the court.

And the president surely hasn't done much to debunk the image that he buys into the woman's seat nonsense. The day after his nomination of Miers — a nomination met with criticism from many of his usual allies (like me) on the Right — the president held a press conference, during which he kept latching onto female things as evidence that she is Supreme material. First woman member of her former law firm. Trailblazer.

But couldn't she just be qualified in a pool of potential picks, male and female? You know, like John Roberts was? Boosting the self-esteem of white guys wasn't part of his qualifications for the court. Can you imagine anyone even suggesting such a thing? Never mind the president of the United States doing so.

As for the White House, the impression "Commander in Chief" may give you that a woman president is unelectable may, in fact, be fiction. We won't know until it happens, but according to a May 2005 USA Today/CNN/Gallup Poll, 70 percent of respondents claimed they "would be likely to vote for an unspecified woman for president in 2008."

Maybe that's because they see women who can compete in the political field not because of their sex, but their talent. Who, as it looks right now, may just have more winning potential than some of the guys on the list of 2008 potentials.

Condi vs. Hillary? Maybe. Today, women are players on many of the same fronts as men. And in presidential politics, if they happen to be the best of the options — the most popular — there we will be.

Not because someone gave the American people a lecture that it was time we gave the girls a chance to throw the ball. But because the girls took the ball and ran with it and did just as well or better than anyone else. That's the only fair way. Be it in the White House, on the Supreme Court, in the military — or just about any other professional front. Anything less is insulting.

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