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Jewish World Review July 26, 2006 / 1 Menachem-Av, 5766

A time to teach kids moral absolutes

By Rabbi S. Binyomin Ginsberg

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We live in a period that has many teachable moments. Let's not squander the opportunities

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | While children being raised in the 21st century may witness security checks and may hear terms such as "the war on terror" and "homeland security," they are by and large sheltered from what many millions of other children experience. We shed tears seeing the pictures of children running from their homes or hiding in bomb shelters.

In the current conflicts in the Middle East and North Korea, children are faced with a great challenge of understanding good and evil. True, they may experience those concepts on computer or video games, but that is not real life. If you think that adults are confused when they hear the term "axis of evil," just imagine what children are thinking and feeling. As adults, we understand the criteria the president used when he coined the term "axis of evil," and we have a clear understanding of terroristic behaviors. We must realize that children lack the ability to digest information on their own.

Parents work very hard to teach their children the differences between good and bad. Children are reprimanded and disciplined when they do something bad. Yet, those same children see a picture of an evil dictator and are told that the dictator is bad. What are children supposed to think? To a child, an evil murderer is now being termed bad; how is the child different from the person who did something bad?

As we increasingly confront the evil we must help our children deal with the emotional trauma. Recently, a young child asked his parents why don't we put the evil people in the time-out corner. An older child asks why we don't have those people participate in conflict resolution. Our children hear so much about hatred and they suggest methods known to them. We do everything we can to discourage physical altercations with our children and yet they see adults using rockets.

If we want to be true to our children and raise them with honesty and integrity, we must teach our children that even good people go to war, and yes, there are evil people in this world. It is our responsibility to help children during times of confusion. It is critically important not to downgrade the terms we use when we discuss certain people or acts. There is a huge difference between doing something wrong and doing something evil. Children must be taught that there are moral absolutes, that good and evil do exist. We must take a stand against those who say that good and evil are only opinions.

Until this past week, I don't ever recall listening to news reports that mentioned the words "World War III." We live in a period that has many teachable moments. Don't squander these moments. Let us teach our children the harsh but true lessons that are to be gleaned. We can hope that they, as adults, will be around to teach these lessons to their children in a period of true world peace.

JWR contributor Rabbi S. Binyomin Ginsberg is dean of Torah Academy in Minneapolis. Comment by clicking here.


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