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Jewish World Review April 18, 2006 / 20 Nissan, 5766

One spring night

By Sarah Shapiro

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | One spring night — the night that's famous for its difference from all others — we were sitting around the table reciting the Hagadda and had gotten to the line that reads: "For not only one has risen up against us. In every generation, some have risen up against us to annihilate us, but the Most Holy, blessed be He, has delivered us out of their hands."

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Was it the early 1980s, when we were living on a settlement in the Judean Desert? Along with twenty other young American couples, we'd moved out to that forsaken land at the encouragement of Ariel Sharon, who had personally attended the groundbreaking ceremonies. Not since Biblical times — when the ancient prophet Amos (after whom our yishuv was named) roamed its rocky terrain — had anyone inhabited this dry and empty expanse.

As the desert winds howled around our little metal prefab — one of ten identical boxes set down in a row upon a stony hill — we drank our four cups of wine and sang "One Kid." Had we stepped outside into the enormous black night with its million stars, our gaze would have taken in one stony hill after another, after another, as far as the eye could see, and the far-off Dead Sea glimmering in the full moon's light.

Turning the other way, we'd be facing Herodian, the mountain a few miles to the west of Maalei Amos. Up until recently, it had been a neutral feature of the desert landscape. Tonight, I was conscious of its sinister presence all through the Seder — a shadow looming in the back of my mind. A Jew had just been murdered there, a husband and father from the nearby settlement of Tekoa, and the words of the Haggada were jumping out at me from the page:

For not only one has risen up against us. In every generation, some have risen up against us to annihilate us, but the Most Holy, blessed be He, has delivered us out of their hands.

It could have been the spring of 1990 — a few weeks after the end of the Gulf War. A month and a half earlier, on Purim Day, Saddam Hussein had suddenly — out of the blue! — surrendered, and we were still in shock, rejoicing. With what exultation, how giddy we'd been, tearing down the plastic sheeting on all the windows, opening up the house, letting the warm wind into our once-sealed rooms. How the sunlight flooded our hearts with glee! Pesach cleaning had never been such a breeze!

We sat merrily reciting the Haggada around our festive table, with its crystal wine glasses and ivory tablecloth, and read:

For not only one has risen up against us. In every generation, some have risen up against us to annihilate us, but the Most Holy, blessed be He, has delivered us out of their hands.

Was it 2002, when an intifada was blazing out of control, a conflagration no government had the power to stop? We'd been scared to leave the neighborhood for weeks, months. No traveling on buses, no strolling downtown. Mothers had gathered their children and shut the doors. Now it was the Festival of Freedom, but as my husband read, Blood, frogs, vermin…pestilence, boils, hail, darkness and slaying of the firstborn, a roll of thunder resounded out in the darkness. We kept glancing out the window, bemused. Such crashes of lightning, such furious hail and noise! Would frogs soon be jumping around under the table? The whole Seder had such a strangely violent storm for background music. Only when the holiday was over did we learn that as we and Jews around the world had celebrated our redemption, a suicide bombing at the Park Hotel, in the coastal city of Netanya, for which Hamas claimed responsibility, had killed thirty Jews and injured 140 — 20 of them seriously.

For not only one has risen up against us. In every generation, some have risen up against us to annihilate us, but the Most Holy, blessed be He, has delivered us out of their hands.

During my thirty years in Israel, time after time, the country has found itself at the edge of a precipice from which we could see no escape. And time after time, the crisis dissolved in some bizarre, unexpected fashion.

A few years ago, the morning after a particularly cruel and deadly suicide bombing on Rechov Ben Yehuda, I resisted the instinctive impulse to hide inside the apartment, and made my way by foot downtown. There was some compulsion going on: I had to witness the scene for myself before all signs of it were cleared away.

I'll never forget the desolation that overwhelmed me as I walked along the streets. Stores were boarded up, coffee shops were closed, sidewalks were virtually empty. After more than a year of intifada, downtown Jerusalem looked like a ghost town. Two whole blocks were cordoned off by yellow crime-scene markers. Flecks of blood were on the stones under my feet! When I looked up, above the shattered glass of storefront windows, I saw spattered blood! What was happening to us? Where was my beloved city?

Like a stray bit of paper flitting around in the wind, I was rambling, stunned, here and there along the Ben Yehuda Promenade, when I spotted one store with an open door. I walked towards it like a moth drawn by light.

It was a music shop. I entered.

A young man was behind the glass counter, busy with something or other at the cash register. The shelves behind him displayed Sony cassette players and Walkmen and CDs. He asked, "Can I help you?"

I didn't have an immediate reply. "It's good that you're here," I said.

He shrugged.

"What do you think's going to happen?"

He gave a quick nod upwards — lifting one hand palm up and glancing toward the ceiling.

I understood the Israeli gesture. He, with his punk haircut, who wore no yarmulka, was telling me in Whose Hands the answer lay. "It won't always be like this," he declared flatly.

"It won't?" I said. It was as if this boy had thrown out a long line to rescue me, and I'd just caught hold. "Really?" I said. "You think so?" How I wanted to believe!

"Right. It won't last forever."

And it didn't.

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