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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

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Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

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Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

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April 4, 2014

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Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

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Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

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April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

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Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

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Jewish World Review March 27, 2006 / 27 Adar, 5766

Charity begins at home, ends at City Hall

By Debra J. Saunders

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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | The last time the Roman Catholic Church and the San Francisco Board of Supervisors squared off on same-sex marriage, the Special City's thought police essentially forced Catholic Charities to renounce Catholic doctrine in order to continue receiving city funds it needs to care for the sick. With a similar battle looming, will city solons again be as intolerant as the Vatican it deplores?

Here's the situation: Catholic Charities has placed 136 such children in good homes in the last five years, including five children with same-sex couples. As Catholic Charities Executive Director Brian Cahill explained, the previous S.F. archbishop, William Levada, exercised "pastoral flexibility" — in looking beyond the Vatican's opposition to same-sex marriage so that the charity could provide loving homes for children who sorely need them.

As Cahill explained, at any given time California has some 700 foster children who are "difficult to place." They have multiple handicaps, or they've been traumatized by neglect or abuse. Maybe they're older. Odds are better than even that it will take more than two years for agencies to find those children a permanent home, and those children are not best off in the foster-care system.

"G-d bless any parents who are willing to come forward and take care of these kids," said Cahill. "Regardless of their sexual orientation, they are doing God's work, and we should commend them for taking care of kids that no one else wanted."

Alas, after the same Levada donned his cardinal's red hat in Rome, he sent an e-mail to Catholic Charities in Boston and San Francisco that said, "Catholic agencies should not place children for adoption in homosexual households."

Catholic Charities in Boston announced it will get out of the adoption business rather than violate state laws that forbid discrimination against gays and lesbians. Gay advocates won a political victory — and unwanted children will pay the price.

In the San Francisco Bay Area, Catholic Charities has announced no such change in its policy. The group sent out a statement that said it "will continue to serve the best interests of vulnerable children who need loving homes — either the way we have been — or in a new creative way."

Beware: "creative" is Church Latin for "cave." Cahill hopes the church will not try to force Catholic Charities in San Francisco to stop these adoptions. I agree that the Vatican should put the children's best interests first.

I also recognize that the church has a right to uphold its beliefs and don't believe city governments should tell religious groups what to believe. For its part, the San Francisco Board of Supervisors passed a resolution that cited the Levada e-mail: It's an "insult to all San Franciscans when a foreign country, like the Vatican, meddles with" the great San Francisco tradition of same-sex families. Being the supes, they threw in some of their favorite adjectives: "hateful," "discriminatory," "insulting" and "callous."

Certainly the supes have a right to hector the church, even if they miss the irony that they, too, have meddled in the doings of Vatican traditions.

In 1996, the city required all city contractors to provide staffers with domestic-partner benefits so that same-sex couples would enjoy the same benefits as married couples. Supporters said that the city was barring discrimination against homosexuals. Bunk. Catholic Charities, which provides loving care for those with HIV and AIDS, is hardly out to hurt gays, no matter what the Vatican thinks about homosexuality.

The 1996 rule was a heavy-handed bit of work designed to force religious people to renounce church doctrine. It wasn't enough that they wanted to house and care for people with AIDS. Noooo, Catholic Charities also had to show it put City Hall doctrine before Vatican policies when it came to gay relationships. Catholic Charities concocted a "creative" agreement in order to let the charity provide staffers with a sexual-orientation-neutral form of partner benefits.

It was an intolerant squeeze on religious freedom, "viewpoint discrimination." The devout need not apply. A decade later, the city can't pull funding for adoptions because it doesn't give Catholic Charities a dime for its adoption activities. It can, however, withdraw city dollars for Catholic Charities' programs for the homeless and people with HIV/AIDS. Once again, politics could trump healing.

If the Special City so desires, it can make life hell for a charity that only wants to help people in need. If the Special City likes to, it can conduct another inquisition to make sure that charities strictly adhere to the supervisors' doctrine. Or maybe City Hall has grown up, and now realizes that tolerance is a two-way street.

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