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May 21, 2012

Mark Clayton: Cybersecurity: How US utilities passed up chance to protect their networks
Howard LaFranchi: NATO summit: Who will foot the bill for long-term Afghanistan security?
Chris Farrell : Earn Dividends in Emerging Markets with This WisdomTree ETF
James K. Glassman: 5 Stock Picks Among Online Retailers
Stephen Whiteside, Ph.D. : Mayo Clinic Medical Edge: Social anxiety disorder --- or just shy?
Guy Jackson : Victim's father regrets death of Lockerbie bomber
The Kosher Gourmet by Mario Batali: Famed chef's veal shoulder farsumagru: A festive meat course for late spring
May 18, 2012
Rabbi Berel Wein: Striving: The People of the Book's Book for (All of) the People
Caroline B. Glick: Embracing dangerous delusions and not our friends
Steven Goldberg: 5 Great Stock Picks and the Exchange-Traded Fund that Owns Them
Janet Bodnar: How to Teach Kids to Handle Credit Cards
Mary Pickett, M.D.: Ask the Harvard Experts: Don't be forced into gluten-free lifestyle based merely on a doctor's false-positive test
The Kosher Gourmet by Carolyn Malcoun: DIY healthy lunchbox treats: HOMEMADE FRUIT BARS for kids and brown-bagging adults alike
May 17, 2012
Warren Richey: Teacher fired for being unwed and pregnant can sue religious school, court rules
Josh Mitnick: Netanyahu's 'centrist' coalition is already proving it's anything but
Steven Goldberg: Earn Dividends in Emerging Markets with This WisdomTree ETF
Mary Beth Franklin: Retirement Savings Tips for New Grads
Amina Khan: Research links coffee to lower death rates
Chelsea Sheasley: Social media: Is it too feminine?
The Kosher Gourmet by Faith Duran : Cheesy Potato Breakfast Casserole with Cheddar and Sun-Dried Tomatoes
May 16, 2012
Jackson Holahan: The Aleppo Codex
Jonathan Tobin : Iran Declares Victory in Nuclear Talks
Anne Kates Smith: 7 Stocks That Let You Sleep Tight
Carmen Terzic, M.D., Ph.D. : Mayo Clinic Medical Edge: A variety of exercises can help improve balance
Melissa Healy: National strategy on Alzheimer's disease aims to halt it by 2025
The Kosher Gourmet by Joyce White : GOODNESS GRACIOUS: GREENS! 4 winning recipes that are no longer just for down-home folks (Includes expert tips & techniques)
May 15, 2012
Dennis Prager: God and Man at (and for) Liberty
Kristen Chick: Obama administration resumes arms sales to Bahrain despite serious unresolved human rights issues. Activists feel abandoned
Pat Mertz Esswein: Homes are now affordable again and mortgage rates are low. What you need to know before you buy
Kathy Kristof: Our Practical Investor Fights Inflation with These 6 Investments
Sue Hubbard, M.D.: The Kid's Doctor: Lactose intolerant young child? Check again
Environmental Nutrition Editors: Get the facts on palm sugar sweetening
The Kosher Gourmet by Kathy Hunt: Spread a Little Excitement with EXOTIC CONDIMENTS (4 RECIPES)
May 14, 2012
Richard Simon: Purple Hearts for domestic terror victims?
Nando Pelusi, Ph.D.: The privacy paradox: Surrounded by strangers, we risk isolation, anxiety
Chris Farrell: Investing Lessons from the Great Recession
Lisa Gerstner: How to Protect Your Identity, Finances If You Lose Your Phone
Harvard Health Letters: Heart disease and dementia
Tiffany O'Callaghan: New hormone mimics effects of exercise without the sweat
The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon: MANGO COCONUT OAT MORNING MUFFINS are a bright but hearty delight
May 11, 2012
Rabbi B. Shafier: Why happiness will always be elusive
Charles Krauthammer: Echoes of '67: Israel unites
Howard LaFranchi: With G8 snub, US-Putin 'reset' off to stumbling start
Jeremy J. Siegel: Investors, Relax About Rising Interest Rates
Jessica L. Anderson: Get the Best Deal on a Used Car
Jett Stone: Forget face-lifts and fake knees. Scientists have seen the fountain of youth --- and it's broccoli
The Kosher Gourmet by Chef Mario Batali: The famed chef's vegetable dish that tastes true to the season: FAVAS AND SUGAR SNAP PEAS WITH POTATOES AND TARRAGON
May 10, 2012
Clifford D. May: The Real Palestinian Refugee Problem
Sergei L. Loiko: Putin sends warning to U.S., NATO in Victory Day speech at Red Square
Mary Rourke: How being a 'mentch' got Vidal Sasoon his start and fighting in Israel's War of Independence provided him with confidence and a strong sense of his own identity
Harvard Health Letters: Palliative care: Underused therapy yields surprising benefits
Jeff Bertolucci: Get Home Phone Service for Less Than $10 a Month
Rachel L. Sheedy and Susan B. Garland : Make the Right Moves to Boost Benefits
The Kosher Gourmet by Betty Rosbottom: Gleaming with its golden, crimson, and snowy white hues, this silken smooth and creamy STRAWBERRY ORANGE TRIFLE looks impressive, but is easy to prepare
May 9, 2012
John Rosemond: Parents, stop destroying the American male
Valerie J. Nelson: Maurice Sendak, author of 'Where the Wild Things Are,' dies at 83
Bob Frick: Angst Over Annuities
Sharon Palmer, R.D. How you can reduce your risk -- or delay -- chronic diseases associated with aging
Howard LeWine, M.D.: Ask the Harvard Experts: Why did my blood pressure suddenly shoot up?
Lisa Gerstner: Lower the Rate on All Your Loans
The Kosher Gourmet by Emily Ho : Springtime soba with miso sauce offers a coloful mix of fresh textures and flavors
May 8, 2012
Edmund Sanders: Netanyahu suddenly cancels new elections, forms unity government
Frank J. Gaffney Jr.: Farewell to European superstate
Anne Kates Smith: 4 Stocks That Mimic Buffett and Berkshire Hathaway
Gaia Vince and Clare Wilson The Rise of Miniature Medical Robots: Fantasy Fast Becoming Reality
Paul Takahashi, M.D.: Mayo Clinic Medical Edge: Never suffer night leg cramps
Jessica L. Anderson: Extended-Warranty Warning
The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington: Celebrate National Chocolate Chip Day with the Best Cookie Ever (Includes techniques)
May 7, 2012
Mark Clayton: Homeland Security warns major cyber attack aimed at gas pipeline industry underway
Angus Roxburgh: Putin Decoded: World view of a Russian feeling dissed
Kimberly Lankford: Navigate a Course for Long-Term Care
Kevin McCormally How to Adjust Your Tax Withholding
Celeste Robb-Nicholson, M.D.: Harvard Health Letters: How do you treat a Baker's cyst?
Joanne Capano: Healthy Snacks for Children: The Choices May Surprise You
The Kosher Gourmet by Penelope Wall: Classic Creamy Spinach Dip with a Fraction of the Calories and Fat
May 4, 2012
Rabbi Nathan Lopes Cardozo: Holy 'trivialities'
Jonathan Tobin: Bibi v. Barak will be no contest this time around
Steven Goldberg: Blue Chip Stocks On Sale Worldwide
Art Pine Slow Productivity Growth a Blessing --- For Now
Sue Hubbard, M.D. : The Kid's Doctor: Are Kids Too Wired?
Kerri-Ann Jennings, M.S., R.D: Foods that are good for your smile
Amy Paturel, M.S., M.P.H.: Eating Well: Foods that are good for your smile
The Kosher Gourmet by Betty Rosbottom: Strawberry rhubarb parfaits are elegant yet simple to assemble
May 3, 2012
Michael Freund: Who's Afraid of the Messiah?
Clifford D. May: The Foggiest War
Susan B. Garland: Insurance to Cover Old Old Age
Steven Goldberg 6 Reasons to Bet on a Big Bull Market
Harvard Health Letters: Treating prostate cancer --- no rush to judgment
Larry Gordon: Harvard, MIT partner to offer free online courses
Naomi Nix : Man gets free trip to Chicago after postcard sent by mother in 1957 finally reaches him
The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington: Intensely Italian vegetable frittata is a seriously simple standby


Jewish World Review

Living with ideals --- in reality

By Chief Rabbi Dr. Warren Goldstein


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Man, by definition and nature, cannot be an angel. A careful reading of the narratives in the Bible outlines His expectations of us

South Africa's Chief Rabbi on achieving greatness by recognizing our true mission

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | . At the beginning of this week's reading, Beshalach, we find one of the most bitter, cynical complaints in history. The parsha begins with the Jewish people leaving Egypt. They get to the edge of the Red Sea and by this stage Pharaoh regrets having begged them to leave after the tenth plague, and he and his army are in hot pursuit to bring them back to Egypt. On the one side they see Pharaoh approaching them and on the other side they see the Red Sea. They are caught, literally, between the devil and the deep blue sea. Their reaction is cynical: "were there were no graves in Egypt you have brought us to die in the desert?"

Complaining is a natural human reaction to problems. They are stuck and frightened, Pharaoh is on the one side, the sea is on the other side and they don't know how it's going to end. They see no way out. Yet after everything they have seen — the ten plagues and all the miracles — it's surprising that they would say something so cynical to Moses. Indeed, this was a terrible, bitter and cynical complaint on their part.

THE TORAH IS A BOOK OF TRUTH AND IMPLEMENTABLE IDEALS
The fact that the Torah records this complaint shows that it's a book of truth; it's not a legend or fairytale, but a recounting of the historical events which took place. If we were writing a happily-ever-after fairytale, we would describe the ten plagues, how the Jews came out victoriously, happy and confident; how they came to the Red Sea, how they had faith in the Divine and how the sea split. But the Torah is not a fairytale, and so it records even this bitter cynicism because that is what actually happened. Throughout the Torah we find records of our great ancestors' sins in full detail, because the Torah is a book of truth, not fables.

The Torah is also a book about living with ideals in the real world, with all its difficulties. On the one hand, the Torah is about the Lord's vision for us — the ideals, mitzvos (religious duties), principles and values with which we are meant to live; on the other hand, we are real people, flesh and blood, and we make mistakes. The challenge is to translate the Divine's lofty ideals into the reality of our lives. This is why Torah law is called Halacha, which comes from the Hebrew word laleches, "to walk." It's about taking those ideals and walking through life with them, making them a part of our life — literally "walking the talk." The Divine gave the Torah so that it will be implemented, and that is why all the "messy" details — the failures and sins of the people — are recorded. These are testimony to the fact that G0d gave us the Torah fully aware of our frailties, vulnerabilities and shortcomings. Despite our human limitations, He gave us the Torah because we are capable of living up to the ideals that He has given us.

LEADING AN IDEAL LIFE IN A LESS-THAN-IDEAL WORLD
This week's reading records that when they left Egypt, Moses took the bones of Joseph with him. They carried Joseph's coffin throughout their forty-year journey in the desert and buried him once they got to the Land of Israel. When Jacob died, he had left instructions to be buried in Israel and so when he died his body was moved immediately from Egypt to Israel. Josef's instructions were a bit different: he said "G0d will remember you," and when you are eventually redeemed, take me with you and bury me in the Land of Israel. He didn't ask to be buried immediately in Israel, only when they left Egypt.


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The Midrash says that as they traveled in the desert, two things walked in front of them: the Holy Ark which contained the Tablets on which the Ten Commandments were engraved, and Josef's coffin. It seems strange to have a coffin alongside the Holy Ark. But the Midrash explains that the reason for this was because Josef had fulfilled the whole Torah, and so his coffin went alongside the Ark which contained the Tablets. The two went together — the Holy Ark, representing the ideal, and Josef's coffin, because Josef exemplified how the ideal can be practiced and lived by in the real world.

Sometimes we wonder, can it really be done? We think, maybe it can be done in a perfect, ideal world but not in the imperfect world in which we live. But Josef reminds us that it is indeed possible. Josef lived in the real, imperfect and difficult world. He was sold at the age of 17; he had to find his way in the house of Potifar, overcome the temptation of committing adultery with Potifar's wife and overcome the struggles of being in an Egyptian dungeon. And then, possibly his greatest test was that he went from the dungeon to becoming the viceroy, the second-in-command, of all of Egypt. He then had all the power, fame and fortune and yet he still remained loyal to the values of his father's house. He lived under extremely challenging circumstances and proved that living with ideals in a less-than-ideal world is possible.

Rabbi Zalman Sorotzkin (1881-1966), in his Hebrew-language commentary, Oznayim LaTorah, discusses how the two aronos -- the Ark and the coffin — went next to each other, to show the people that Torah is doable. They mustn't think it is something for the heavens and that it cannot be achieved here on earth. Josef is the proof of that and that is why his coffin goes in front of the people, next to the Ark: to inspire the people and show them that it is possible to live the ideals of Torah, whatever the circumstances.

LIVING WITH FAITH THROUGH ALL CIRCUMSTANCES
But there could be another reason, another message, behind why Josef's coffin had to accompany them. The people in the desert were not just struggling with keeping the mitzvos. They were struggling with faith in the Almighty.

Already when they left Egypt their faith was tested. They saw the Egyptians on the one side, the sea on the other and they thought, where is G0d ? He has abandoned us. Their complaining and cynicism reflected a crisis of faith. The message behind why Josef's coffin had to accompany the people is that Josef exemplified trust and faith in G0d even under difficult circumstances. It's one thing to have faith and trust in G0d when things are going well; it's another thing entirely when things are difficult. When you are seventeen years old and your own brothers turn against you and sell you into slavery and you land up in a foreign land where you can't speak the language, and then just when you think things are going well you end up in a dungeon — we can only imagine how difficult it must have been for him. And yet he pulled through, with his faith intact.

Our faith is often tested in challenging times. Part of our faith is to believe that G0d is in control and that whatever happens, gam zu letovah — this too is for the good, even if we don't always understand things and things don't always turn out the way we want them to.

The fact that Josef came through all his trials with his faith intact is seen very clearly when he reveals himself to his brothers and they are broken about what they had done to him, and he says to them, don't worry, you intended for the bad, but G0d intended for the good; He sent me here to save this whole region from famine. We see that Josef eventually figured out why everything had to happen. He understood why he had to go through all this pain and suffering — to save everyone from the famine.

And again, after their father's death, the brothers worried that Josef would bear a grudge against them and Josef says don't worry, I can see G0d 's hand in this. Josef knew all along that G0d is in control. And that is why he said to them pakod yifkod "G0d will remember you one day." He was so confident that G0d would redeem them that he said don't worry about burying me in Israel, I know I will get there eventually because G0d will redeem you from Egypt, and when he does, take my body with you. Josef's life exemplified faith and trust in G0d.

HIS MASTER PLAN
The remarkable irony is this: Josef thought he understood G-d's plan, but he actually didn't. The Gemara explains that Josef was buried in Shechem, the very place where he was kidnapped and sold by his brothers; he was taken from Shechem and he was buried in Shechem, showing the completion of G-d's plan, spanning a few hundred years. Josef thought he understood G0d's plan, but G0d's plans don't always work out in a matter of a few years. They can sometimes take decades and even centuries and longer. He thought G0d had sent him to Egypt because there was going to be a famine and he had to save the whole region from starvation.

But in fact, G0d brought the famine so that Jacob and his whole family would come down to Egypt. G0d wanted the whole family in Egypt so that we, as a people, would be born into the slavery of Egypt and then be liberated by G0d and witness the ten plagues and the splitting of the sea; He wanted us to be created as a nation through our freedom given by Him with miracles. For that to happen, we had to be in Egypt and so G0d brought a famine. Josef thought he understood that he was there to save them from the famine, but actually the famine was there to get them all down to Egypt, then to Mount Sinai to receive the Torah, and eventually to the Promised Land. Thus G0d's plan began and ended in Shechem; when they eventually re-enter the Land of Israel and Josef is buried in Shechem, the circle is complete.

G0d's plan works on a much larger scale than we can even begin to imagine. That's why our trust and faith in G0d is often tested — we see only a fraction of the picture, a blurred glimpse. G0d sees the full picture. To us, it's like looking at the back of a tapestry — it's a knotty mess. But when viewed from the front, the beautiful picture can be seen. The message of Josef's coffin traveling with the people was to say, remember, here was a man who lived with trust and faith in G0d even through terrible suffering. His life represents the Lord's incredible plan, that G0d is watching everything, even though His plan is sometimes brought to fruition not in a matter of weeks or months or even years, but decades and centuries and sometimes even longer.

The people traveling in the desert — ordinary people, flesh and blood — made all kinds of human mistakes and had many failures. And yet the Torah was given to them. G0d gave us the Torah knowing that we are mortals, because he wants us to live up to the greatest ideals. He wanted the people in that generation to live up to those ideals and the life story of Josef is what inspired them to do so. Josef showed that it can be done, that one can live a life of mitzvos and do the right thing and fulfill G0d's will despite the circumstances. He showed what it means to have real trust and faith in Hashem, even when things don't turn out the way we want. His life showed that there is a broader picture, a grander scale of history, that G0d is watching every detail and that He loves us and cares about us.

Let that be our inspiration to make the lofty ideals of the Torah a real part of our day-to-day lives.

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The author is the Chief Rabbi of South Africa and the author of "Defending the Human Spirit: Jewish Law's Vision for a Moral Society," which explores the Torah's legal system compared to Western law. In using real court cases he demonstrate the similarities and differences between Judaism's view of defending the vulnerable and Western legal practice.


Previously:


Expansion Of Spirit

Laughter And Destiny
Truth Stands the Test of Time







© 2012, Rabbi Dr. Warren Goldstein